
Strap-On Harnesses
Find the perfect fit with our premium strap-on harnesses, crafted for security, comfort, and full-body confidence. With adjustable straps, O-ring compatibility, and reinforced support, these harnesses pair seamlessly with most dildos—giving you total control and ultimate intimacy.
Whether you're new to strap-on play or ready to upgrade, this collection is built for every body and every adventure.
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XM45 Dual-Dildo Strap-On Harness with Adjustable Straps and Double O-Ring Openings
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XM41 Super-Supportive Full-Back Strap-On Harness with Adjustable Straps and 2 Interchangeable O-Rings
Regular price $19.95 USDRegular priceUnit price / per
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The Dildo Guide
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First Time Using a Dildo? Beginner’s Guide
Diving into the world of dildos for the first time? This guide will walk you through everything you need to know to ensure a safe, comfortable, and intensely satisfying experience.
First Time Using a Dildo? Beginner’s Guide
Diving into the world of dildos for the first time? This guide will walk you through everything you need to know to ensure a safe, comfortable, and intensely satisfying experience.
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How to Explore Deeper Pleasure with a Dildo
When it comes to self-discovery and intimate pleasure, a dildo is more than just a toy—it’s a tool for unlocking new sensations, deeper orgasms, and ultimate satisfaction.
How to Explore Deeper Pleasure with a Dildo
When it comes to self-discovery and intimate pleasure, a dildo is more than just a toy—it’s a tool for unlocking new sensations, deeper orgasms, and ultimate satisfaction.
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What Makes Dual-Layer Silicone Dildos Special?
Unlike traditional silicone dildos, dual-layer silicone dildos are designed with a firm inner core and a soft outer layer, mimicking the natural structure of an erect penis.
What Makes Dual-Layer Silicone Dildos Special?
Unlike traditional silicone dildos, dual-layer silicone dildos are designed with a firm inner core and a soft outer layer, mimicking the natural structure of an erect penis.
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How to Properly Clean and Maintain Your Dildo
Whether you’re using a silicone dildo, a PVC / TPE dildo, or a glass dildo, keeping it clean and in good condition is essential for both your safety and enjoyment.
How to Properly Clean and Maintain Your Dildo
Whether you’re using a silicone dildo, a PVC / TPE dildo, or a glass dildo, keeping it clean and in good condition is essential for both your safety and enjoyment.
Dildo FAQs

What are Pillowside Play Dildos Made From?
At Pillowside Play, all of our dildos are crafted exclusively from premium, body-safe silicone. We choose silicone because it’s non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean — offering unmatched safety, durability, and realism. With its soft, skin-like texture and flexible structure, silicone delivers the lifelike experience our brand is known for. We never use PVC or TPE, so you can trust that every product meets the highest standards of quality and care.
Do Dildos Feel Like the Real Thing?
Not every dildo is made to look and feel like the real thing. Some prioritize discretion, others use bold materials like glass for unique sensations. But our Ultra Realistic Dildo collection is different — meticulously crafted from body-safe premium silicone, with lifelike textures and a skin-like touch that deliver the most authentic experience possible.
Can I Use Lubricant with a Dildo?
Absolutely! A good lubricant enhances comfort and pleasure, ensuring smooth and enjoyable play. For silicone dildos, always use water-based lube to protect the material and maintain its longevity. If you're exploring anal play, opt for a thicker, long-lasting anal lubricant for the best experience.
Is a Condom Necessary for Using a Dildo?
Not strictly required — but highly recommended. Using a condom makes cleanup easier, helps maintain hygiene, and adds an extra layer of protection, especially if you're sharing the dildo or using it with a partner. It can also reduce the risk of potential STI transmission, even with body-safe materials.
How Do I Choose the Right Size Realistic Dildo?
When selecting a realistic dildo, two key measurements matter most: insertable length and girth. Insertable length typically ranges from 5 to 10 inches or more, while girth usually falls between 4 to 7 inches. Of course, our inflatable dildos offer adjustable girth and insertable length to customize your experience.
The best size for you depends on your comfort and personal preference. Whether you’re seeking a beginner-friendly option or a more intense, fulfilling experience, choosing the right fit ensures maximum pleasure every time.
Can I Use a Dildo for Anal Play?
Absolutely! Anal dildos are a popular way to explore new sensations, but they require extra care for a safe and comfortable experience. Always choose a dildo with a flared base to ensure easy retrieval, and never skip the lube—it’s essential for smooth and enjoyable play.