Usage & Safety Guidelines

At Pillowside Play, your pleasure, comfort, and safety are our top priorities. Every realistic dildo and silicone sex toy we offer is crafted with care and designed exclusively for adult use. To ensure an enjoyable and risk-free experience, we ask that you read the following instructions thoroughly before use.

Use with Care and Intention

Our products are designed to enhance intimacy and exploration, but not every toy is suited for every body or experience level. Be mindful of your personal limits regarding shape, girth, and length, especially when exploring our larger 9 inch dildos or strap-on compatible toys.

Always:

  • Start slowly, especially with longer or thicker toys.
  • Never force insertion—this can cause discomfort or injury.
  • Discontinue use immediately if you feel pain, pressure, or discomfort.
  • Use only in a relaxed, consenting environment and with clear personal boundaries.
  • Avoid using any silicone dildo or anal toy beyond your comfort or experience level.
  • Consult a healthcare provider if you're uncertain whether a toy is right for your body.

Who Should Not Use These Products

If you have any of the following conditions, consult a medical professional before use:

  • Pregnant or may become pregnant
  • Ongoing mental health conditions
  • History of surgery in the mouth, vagina, anus, or colon
  • Hemorrhoids, fissures, or prolapse
  • Cardiovascular or respiratory illnesses
  • Conditions related to substance use or physical self-harm

Sexual wellness products—especially insertable ones—should be used responsibly, and only when your physical and mental health allows.

Damaged or Compromised Toys

Every Pillowside Play product is made from body-safe liquid silicone, engineered to feel as close to real skin as possible. However, toys can be damaged during transit, through misuse, or improper storage.

Before each use:

  • Inspect the entire product for damage such as cracks, flaking, discoloration, mold, or stickiness.
  • Do not use the toy if there are any signs of material degradation or contamination.
  • Never attempt to modify, trim, or alter the shape of your toy.

Using a damaged product can result in serious injury or infection. For insertable toys—especially those used for P-spot massage or G-spot stimulation—this risk is significantly higher.

Oral Use and Choking Warning

Some realistic dildos feature large heads or extra girth and are not recommended for oral use. Oral insertion of any toy should be done with caution. Never insert deeper than is comfortable, and avoid if there's any risk of triggering the gag reflex or obstructing breathing.

Temperature Play: Warm with Caution

Many of our toys are compatible with gentle warming or cooling for enhanced sensation, but temperature play must be done safely:

  • Warming: Use only warm (not hot) tap or filtered water. Do not microwave or boil. For vaginal play, aim for body temperature (~98.6°F / 37°C). For anal toys, room temperature or slightly above (~68–77°F / 20–25°C) is ideal.
  • Cooling: Never chill a toy below 50°F (10°C). Extreme cold can damage tissues or make insertion painful.
  • Always test the toy’s temperature with your hand before insertion.

Lubrication: Always Use Water-Based Lube

To protect your silicone dildo and reduce friction, always use a high-quality, water-based lubricant. Avoid silicone-based lubes, which may degrade the toy’s surface over time.

We recommend:

  • Applying lube generously before use.
  • Performing a spot test on the toy’s base with new lubes.
  • Reapplying as needed during extended sessions.

Proper lubrication enhances comfort, reduces the risk of injury, and prolongs your toy’s lifespan.

Cleaning, Sanitizing & Storage

Cleanliness is essential for safe and enjoyable play. After every use, clean your toy thoroughly with mild soap and warm water. Avoid harsh cleaners, alcohol, or bleach, which may damage the silicone.

To maintain optimal hygiene:

  • Rinse thoroughly to remove any soap residue.
  • Dry with a clean towel or paper towel.
  • Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight or heat sources.
  • Do not let toys touch each other in storage—this can cause material reactions.
  • For best results, store on a soft towel in a drawer or dedicated toy bag.

Proper storage not only ensures safety but also maintains the smooth, skin-like texture of your dual-layer silicone dildo.

Routine Health Monitoring

For users of strap-on toys or anal dildos, especially for regular use, we recommend regular medical checkups with a gynecologist, urologist, or proctologist. Be open with your provider about your use of sexual wellness toys. This transparency allows for more accurate assessments and ensures that any discomfort or changes in your body are addressed early.

Never Use Under the Influence

Substances that impair judgment—whether alcohol, recreational drugs, or prescription medications—should not be combined with sex toy usage. Impaired coordination and diminished body awareness greatly increase the risk of injury.

Safety First, Always

Your comfort and safety depend on listening to your body, using common sense, and respecting your boundaries. If at any point you experience:

  • Pain or burning
  • Bleeding or unusual discharge
  • A toy getting stuck or lost
  • Skin irritation or reaction

—stop use immediately and seek medical assistance.

At Pillowside Play, we’re proud to offer premium realistic dildos, vibrating dildos, and strap-on compatible dildos made with your wellness in mind. Our mission is to support your journey of sensual exploration with confidence, care, and joy.

If you have further questions or concerns, don’t hesitate to contact our customer care team. Use responsibly, play safely, and take pleasure in the moment.